Honouring the Path of the Warriors

Russia’s brutal invasion of Ukraine is a reminder of our human capacity to inflict cruelty and suffering. It’s hard to believe we are witnessing this carnage taking place in Europe during the 21st century. However, I’m sure historians will be quick to point out, that unless we learn lessons from the past, we are doomed to repeat them.
On a personal note, the war reminds me of some advice given to me by my late third husband, Harry Richardson MA (Hons) MBE. Harry served forty years in the military, both the RAF and the RNZAF. After leaving the air force, he completed studies in history at the University of Auckland and went on to write two published books.
The advice I am referring to occurred when I was stressed about a situation in my work environment. Having listened to my side of the story, Harry suggested I could be more assertive. He then stated in a more general way that we should stand up to bullies in all areas of life. At the time I was surprised by the strength of his feelings. I knew he hated war because of his experience as a pilot in the second world war. Now he was disclosing a more fundamental principle. Because I loved and admired Harry, I took notice of his advice. A more assertive approach did resolve my work problem.
Which brings me back to the Warrior Path. I want to take this opportunity to honour the heroes of Ukraine. They are fighting for the highest ideals – democracy and the right to exist as a sovereign nation on their own terms.
I learnt a lot from Harry. Before he died, Harry admitted he’d learnt a lot from me. One of the many blessings we can expect from a truly loving relationship.

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